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Hush those justifications in your head

March 24, 2016 by Kate Larsen Leave a Comment

Hush those justifications in your head

Pretend you have a problem, maybe with a family member or co-worker. A friend notices that you’re angry and asks what’s wrong. You open up to describe what’s happening when you suddenly hear: “I know what you mean! That same thing happened to me! I completely understand how you feel. I figured out how to […]

Assumptions hinder helping

March 10, 2016 by Kate Larsen Leave a Comment

Assumptions hinder helping

It’s easy to jump to conclusions, isn’t it? If you’ve been working in a profession for a long time and have day-to-day experience that informs your approach to work and makes it easy to assume, be aware: you may be getting cognitively lazy. Being cognitively lazy means you tend to assume you know the circumstances, […]

Using duct tape to help others

February 25, 2016 by Kate Larsen Leave a Comment

Using duct tape to help others

Imagine I tell you how exhausting it’s been training a new puppy while trying to work without getting distracted. (It has.) Or how frustrating it is to have technical issues while working on my Mac. (It is!) Or how I wish my husband didn’t have to travel so much for work. (I do.) How quickly, […]

When your desire to help gets in the way

February 11, 2016 by Kate Larsen Leave a Comment

When your desire to help gets in the way

My husband affectionately created a nickname for my mom: Polly Platitude. Whenever someone had a problem, she’d pull out a platitude in her well-meaning effort to resolve the issue. Sick as a dog? “Whatever doesn’t kill you will make you stronger.” Your best friend betrays you? “Forgive and forget” because “time heals all wounds.” Your boyfriend […]

The arrogance of fixing people

January 28, 2016 by Kate Larsen 3 Comments

The arrogance of fixing people

My husband and I attended a business event several years ago. I thoroughly enjoyed myself — or at least I thought I had. After arriving home Jack looked at me and said, “Do you realize how often you finish people’s sentences? Or give them words as they are speaking?” “Huh?” was all I could say. […]

Three Aha! moments that changed my client’s life

July 11, 2015 by Kate Larsen 1 Comment

Three Aha! moments that changed my client’s life

Sheila (not her real name) is an incredibly intelligent, successful doctor. She has years of experience in a role that greatly impacts and influences a varied, large number of people. It wouldn’t surprise me if many of those people look at Sheila and admire her quiet confidence, strength of character and ability to get results. […]

What I Learned From An Older Mom: It Isn’t What You Think

May 18, 2015 by Kate Larsen Leave a Comment

What I Learned From An Older Mom: It Isn’t What You Think

Do you absolutely LOVE getting unsolicited advice from people? Are you thrilled when people show off their wisdom without first understanding your needs? Does it impress you to no end when someone takes charge of the conversation without leaving room for discussion and collaboration? Me neither. When I was a young mom, I met an […]

10 Ways to Make Choices That Can Change Your Life

June 28, 2014 by Kate Larsen Leave a Comment

10 Ways to Make Choices That Can Change Your Life

One of my favorite quotes comes from E.B. White, best known perhaps for authoring Charlotte’s Web and Stuart Little: “I arise in the morning torn between the desire to improve the world and the desire to enjoy the world. It makes it hard to plan the day.” Indeed, each of our days start with a […]

Neuroplasticity: It’s Not Too Late to Change Your Brain

April 17, 2014 by Kate Larsen Leave a Comment

Neuroplasticity: It’s Not Too Late to Change Your Brain

Today, the U.S. Navy named one of its ships for former Arizona congresswoman Gabrielle Gifford. If you remember what happened to her three years ago, you’ll know why her presence at this ceremony is a testament of her strength and perseverance. You may also marvel at the power of her brain. It was January of […]

Mindfulness in Business is not an Oxymoron

April 14, 2014 by Kate Larsen Leave a Comment

Mindfulness in Business is not an Oxymoron

Most professionals recognize that thoughtfully planning their daily schedule is important for getting critical work done. And, those same professionals also admit they dive into their days more often than not without that strategic planning. As soon as they walk in the door, people respond to e-mail and voice mail messages, address urgent requests and […]

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